Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 1,844 | One of the many revelations I've had through this cancer ordeal is that fear and worry are useless emotions as it pertains to the "what ifs". We cannot control a recurrence, it will happen if it happens. We cannot control future events...all we can do is hope for the best of the future and live in the current moment to the fullest.
That is what makes life so sweet and special and exciting really. It is the reason to love deeply, tell those you care about how much they mean to you and appreciate every moment as it may be your last. If we learn anything from having cancer it should be that.
Fear, worry, I have no time for them as I'm to busy living and loving to waste the moments I've been blessed with on anything else.
Keep your chin up
Eric
Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.
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