I'm sorry hes struggling with it I've been in both positions and it's hard! Just try to reassure him - my RO said - after two years recurrence highly unlikely... Have him talk to you dr. Maybe without you present - that way he can maybe ask brutally honest questions he thinks you might not want to hear the answers to... One he heats it from a professional things may brighten for him. Hugs!,,


Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan