Welovesammy, PLEASE get a second opinion. We have had someone post on this form who had the cancer come back three times, who is fine now. And please do not consider giving up as an option. We are here to support you every step of the way. Now is the time to fight! VB is right about your inlaws. Tell them, but don't put up with anything but supportive behavior. If they cannot be nice, just tell them to get lost.Joanna