Hello! I want to to thank the people who responded to my last post,I appreciate it more than you know.and I'm sorry I didn't respond to your replies yesterday but I figured I'd wait till today when the biopsy results were explained to us.

Well today he had an appt with the Chemo Dr, and it wasn't good.We were told that the cancer had returned,and we are very upset & confused. when he had his surgery in July I was told by the surgeon that it was a clear cut and all of the lymph nodes were removed. Today they said it's a lymph node.They said that it was not curative.
They offered us 3 options.#1) 2 chemos/2rad a day for 4wks,1 on 1 off.(they said that they don't suggest that because of him being so weak). #2) 1 chemo a wk for 1 hr with Paclitaxel to maintain it. #3) Palliative or Hospice care..

We are destroyed over this news and not sure of which road to follow.If anyone out there has any input pls help us, I can't lose him.We have wanted nothing more than to start a family and enjoy life and then we are confronted with this.Pls someone out there pls help us we really need it.I also have another problem my in-laws have not spoken to my husband since he's been home from the hospital and my mother in law is so nasty to us, but I feel I have a moral obligation to tell her.Can someone give us some input on this situation also.

Well, next week we have to take his Ct Scan films with us to the dr for a final descision on what to do.I can't bear to see him suffer anymore, he's 37 y/o and I'm only 27 y/o we haven't even begun to live our lives and now we are faced with the most horrendous news you can get.Pls give us some input on this matter in order to make an educated descision we have no where to turn and all of you on here are very supportive and we need it right now.I'm so very depressed I feel like my dreams/life are over.

Thank you