Thanks everybody...and yes keep reminding me of how strong I am...cuz I need it! Ron is actually not drinking like he usually does, he only bought a 6 pack over the weekend and I saw him only drink 1 beer out of it, he is getting ready for the surgery, thank God he has the brains to figure out that he needs to feed his body with food and not beer. Smoking...still the same, I don't know when or if he will ever stop, I've tried with both and it is up to him to make that decision. We have to be there I guess again @ 630am, man that sure makes for a long day. I'll keep in touch as much as I can throughout the day.
Love to all you!!!