Thanks for the support everyone!

My mom has gotten a 2nd opinion from another ENT and her primary doctor. But she is going with the one that did the biopsy on her. She's going to undergo surgery at a hospital (Flushing Hospital in New York), I don't think its a cancer center. Its going to be this Thursday which is the earliest time. Should we look at a cancer center? It will lag out the timing longer in order to switch surgeons and hospitals while we're trying to get it done as soon as possible. Should we look at a cancer center? She is being strong, but i know she is frighten from waiting

Shes been saying she feels numbness on her left cheek (cancer found on the side on tongue) and she's always tire. is this normal? I am so worried for her.