I wish all of you caregivers as much peace as can be found.

With the status of his DX in question, I find myself still pushing...and J still resisting. He's angry, he disappears, he doesn't want to know more about any of it. Worse, he doesn't even want an updated scan. I can only hope that he will come to face it on his own. I do not push as hard as I want for fear of closing that door. Hearing of positive changes in attitudes (that hug was HUGE!) gives me hope. Thanks! Blessings to all and to your loved ones.


Ex-spouse MISDIAGNOSED with SCC-HN IVa 12/10. Tonsils out 1/11. 4 teeth out 2/11. TX Erbitux x2, IMRT x2 2/11. 2nd opinion-benign BCC-NOT CANCER 3/11. TX stopped 3/11. New doctors 4/11. ENT agrees with 2nd opinion 5/11. ENT scoped him-all clear 7/11. Ordered MRI anyway. MRI 8/22/11 Result-all clear.