Hi Dave! I agree with the others and demand that a biopsy be done. If he won't then go get another opinion, seek answers to your questions until you are at peace with it.

So sorry to hear of your wife but wouldn't your wife want you to fight if it is cancer? You can do it and we are here for you!

God Bless!

Dx 3/27/09 @ 28 years old with High Grade MEC T4N2M0
Elizabeth, 33, mother of 3 girls (4,7, &8yrs old)
3 rds of chemo(Carbo/Taxol)
Rt Mandibulectomy, rt fibular flap,& rt ND with trach, picc,& g-tube.
30 rds of rads with weekly cisplatin
SCANS ALL CLEAR!
OCF Regional Coordinator of San Antonio Walk