They also seem to think that oral sex really isn't sex. I am a (just retired - yea!) library director and we caught a teenaged couple in the mens' room. (How romantic)and the girl said that they weren't having sex. My staff member who was on duty that night didn't actually witness it, but she could hear them, and told me that while she didn't actually see it, she had been married 30 years, and she knew what it sounded like!

Female, nonsmoker, 70, diag. 5/09 after tongue biopsy: stage IV. Left hemi-gloss. and left selec. neck disec. 30 lymph nodes removed May 20. Over 7 weeks daily rads. with three chemo. PEG removed 12/4/09 Am eating mostly soft foods. Back to work 11/09 Retired 4/1/11. 7 clear scans! Port out 9/11. 2/13. It's back: base of tongue, very invasive
surgery involving lifestyle changes. 2/14: Now speaking w/Passey-Muir valve. Considering a swallow study. Grateful to be alive.