Shar,
Stay the course darlin, I know first hand how wound up we get when our child is the victim. You are a strong mother, intelligent woman, and a partner that anyone would want with them in a hospital. Your daughter is so very lucky to have you.
I know I don't have to tell you, but pay attention to the Docs, ask the difficult questions and look out for you lil' lady. I know you are!! My best wishes are with you.
I'm praying the big Irish prayers for you and your daughter. Keep us posted.
If I can be of any help let me know.

Mike