As i was told, oral cancer does not have any blood "markers" the way some cancers do. Your report sounds VERY similar to mine. When I was first diagnosed one person told me it was moderately differentiated and the other said it was poorly differentiated. I think the first one was just trying to keep me from completely freaking out - but what they didn't realize was that I had already done that when I heard the word Cancer.

One step at a time. At this stage it is impossible not to think about it every second, but if you can - try not to let Cancer steal every day of your weekend. It will already get more days that it deserves. Try - if you can - to push it to the back of your mind. You have done everything you can now it is your time to go out and eat anything you want (a few extra pounds going into surgery/treatment is a good thing), spend time with those you love and enjoy the beauty of nature.

Once you start treatment you will feel significantly better mentally. Actually DOING something is a comfort vs sitting and waiting.

Look forward to hearing about your Monday results.

Donna