Hi Claire,

I just wanted to ask if you have children? If so, it would be really helpful if you can have someone help out - at least the first week.

I had a lateral tongue resection 1/17/11 and am 5 weeks out. Are you having a resection or partial glossectomy? My tongue was sore and I slurred my words for 2 weeks following my surgery. The best advice I can give you, like Christine mentioned, is to take pain medications if you need them. I tried not to take any and the pain was extreme. Once I got it through my head that it is okay to take them, life was much more pleasant.

My surgery was inpatient and I didn't have any lymph nodes removed. I still have some difficulty eating and a minor lisp but am told I should be back to normal soon. Hope this helps a little as what to expect in regards to your tongue. I am sure you will hear from some others who have had a neck dissection.

I am so glad you found this site! When is your surgery?

Yvonne