Hi Kroth and welcome to the forum. I'm so sorry to hear about your brother in law...how sad and he is so young which makes it worse. You and your husband are so kind to care for him. It is stressful, I'm sure.

Where is he being treated? I do agree with Christine, is a second opinion something you can do? Again, you may have already done this but I had 3 opinions until I felt comfortable with my treatment.

Please keep is posted..I am thinking of you and your family.

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)