hello again, i have this battle going on within myself.. my father had radiation/chemo first, which was long and agressive.. he seemed to respond well to the treatments, had clear biopsies in agusut and cancer back in november of this year.. so he had the big surgery on tuesday.. how does one know exactly what to do first.. he was first told back in februaryl that he would have to have his entire tongue, voicebox and jaw removed or do treatments.. of course we did treatments.. i hate that i am questioning our decision.. help.. please