While you may be abandoning the thread there are two books I would highly recommend. One is "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tole. While I was crossing my eyes trying to make my wee brain follow what he was saying through parts of it, all of a sudden we hit part 4 of 4 and it all fell into place (I bought it as an audiobook on ITunes). I have listened to that part of the book many many times and find it comforting, inspirational and important. Having listened to it all, I'm not he ure if just listening to Part 4 would give you the same understanding of what he is saying, but I'm sure even that would be a help if you found the rest of it too tough to plow through.

Another fabulous book is "Chasing Daylight". It is written by and is the story of a KPMG CEO (52 I think?) who was handed a terminal diagnosis and how he handled it. I loved this book and found his approach admirable.

So Charm, while you may want to abandon this thread, maybe others would want to post what books have helped them.

Hugs.

Donna


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