Many thanks for all th replies. Will be flying off tomorrow again to see him. Have talked about the support group and he said he would like to have a look with me.Yesterday's doctors appointment was cancelled and I suggested to postpone now to Thursday when I can accompany him, he sounded happy about that.
Would like to share some more about his condition: He finished chemo and radiation mid July and had his PEG removed end of August a few days before he came for the visit. Dengue got him around this time and in the first week of September he was admitted in ICU back in Delhi. During his stay he also got pneumonia, which has been treated since with various antibiotics but patch on lungs still there. Mid September PEG was reinserted as doctors advised not to take anything orally as apparently swallowed water got most of the time in the wrong pipe and ended up in the lungs. Doctors have given him the ok to start taking in things orally about 1 1/2 weeks ago. His problem now is that he has so much mucus in his mouth - has to spit it out every 5-10 minutes - that he finds it impossible to eat or drink anythink as it "flows with the all the other stuff around ". Anyone who has or had the same problem and any suggestions what might help?
Still thinking of bringing some food items - apple sauce, canned asparagus etc - which he was able to swallow before.
Nici