Hello, I am new to the forum. My life patrner has been diagnosed in May with stage 2 throat cancer and has since undergone and finished his chemotherapy and radiation. We are living in different countries but I have been doing monthly visits. End of August he had his PEG removed and was declared fit for travelling by the doctors. But the visit turned very traumatic as we ended up in hospital 24 hours after arrival. He returned a couple of days later as he wanted to be with his own doctors. Unknowingly he had been infected with Dengue before his coming and it peaked then. He was admitted in ICU for 10 days. It has thrown him back month in his recovery which has affected him emotionally very badly. I myself feel more an more worn out as distance and uncertainty affetcs me very much.