Eric - I can understand your perspective but what you do is valuable. Right now I'd be stark raving mad if I couldn't play games on the computer to distract myself and calm down at the end of the day. Do I need an alternate universe - most days I do. Can't concentrate to read any more and gaming seems to get me thru the end of the day. BTW my husband can't go back to work. I don't think he would care what type of work he did as long as he had enough stamina to do it. Just my two cents worth.

CherylR


CG to H with SCC BOT T4N2cM0 dx 12/19/08, teeth removed pre-tx; Erbitux & RT-done 3/12/09, PEG 2/9/09-7/14/09; ND 6/16. Pet 6/12-no mets except lymph node in neck removed on 6/16. Chyle leak,2nd surg to repair. Dilate esophagus 4/15/10. Clear PET 12/17/10