Paula, I'm so sorry the trip didn't turn out the way you (both) wanted it to. I'm sure your husband's anger towards you came out of frustration and FEAR. Listening to some A**hole nurse who isn't walking in your shoes certainly didn't help. Take a deep breath and hopefully things will calm down now that you are here. Hang in there! Hugs, Wanda

PS - take care of you!


Wanda (47) caregiver to husband John (56) age at diag.(2009)
1-13-09 diagnosed Stage IV BOT SCC (HPV+)
2-12-09 PEG placed, 7-6-09 removed
Cisplatin 7 weeks, 7 weeks (35) IMRT
4-15-09 - treatment completed
8-09,12-09-CT Scans clear, 4-10,6-11-PET Scans clear
4-2013 - HBO (30 dives) tooth extraction
10-2019 - tooth extraction, HBO (10 dives)
11-2019 - Left lateral tongue SCC - Stage 2