Anne, I'm sorry, I must have read your signature info wrong about Gordon being 3 months past the end of treatment. Recovery can be such a slow process and it can seem even longer than what it is especially with the Pneumonia added in. My son never celebrated the small improvements the way I did. He never wanted to read anything about it either. I think he was afraid of getting bad news and he didn't have a lot of confidence in my telling him what I had learned on this site. So when I found things I thought would really help him, I printed it out and just left it by his bed. That way, it would seem like someone else was giving him info and not just me. I don't know if it was the anti-depressant meds finally kicking in or what but his attitude did improve. Nobody deserves to go through this without the right meds though and I do hope Gordon can find the anti-depressant meds that will be right for him. Do let us know how that goes.