Hey Charles, Don't worry, you are going to do fine! I wrote in about when or not to tell a date about my medical history. I received a lot of good advice.

I joined match.com & am having a ball! I had a coffee date last night with a guy (who does not know about my cancer) we had a great time. I saw him glance at my neck (thats got radiation "creases") but he never said anything! On-line dating is a good way to go I find, because it gives one the ability to form a very good friendship via emails back & forth. ...No, I don't work for match.com!!!!

I'm talking to 3 guys now (taking notes to keep their facts straight) If nothing else, its a confidence builder, addicting & flirty...it's fun!

Not to be gross...but I really worried about dry mouth...kissing? It's OK!!! Lets just say..things just blend together!!! Go for it!!!...when YOUR ready!


BOT T3N2M0 No surgery, 38radiation treatments,4 chemo rounds, peg removed 11/08, still have a port. Treatments ended 6/20/08. So far, so Good ! "I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish He didn't trust me so much !"

*** Admin update --- Dianne has passed away on August 25, 2015 ***