Well, hmmm, thanks for being brutally honest. That's what I was looking for. So, basically, it will suck. It's comforting to know that a person can bounce back afterwards. Thank you to everyone for your advice. I'll update everyone after my doctors appointments. On the bright side, my doctor and his staff are really handsome, so maybe that will give me something to look forward to:)

Cancer found on left bottom portion of my tongue on March 9th. Non-smoker and light drinker. Tumor removed March 30th. Stage 1. No chemo. No radiation.