anne,
yall are definately on a rough path but that path will still lead u to the final treatment. seems like u may have to fight gordon every step of the way, but there are many on here that had that fight and made it thru. u can do it too.
my hubbys treatments had to be discontinued for 5 weeks due to complications, they resumed right where they left off.
get the MO office to help with getting gordon a pump for the feeding tube, it can be hooked up during the night and feed him alot of nutrition.
good luck sweetie, my thoughts are with u.


Teresa
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CG to ANDY. Nasopharyngeal Carcinoma (NPC)
T2N2cMxG4 stage 4. 43 @ dx 8/31/09
tx 9/21/09-11/06/09 cispatin/docetaxel/5-FU X3
PORT 9/9/09, PEG 12/07/09
35 IMRT-1/wk carbo 11/30/09-2/3/10
tx stopped due to complications
IMRT BOOST 3/08-3/12/10
PET 4/12/10 CLEAR!
PEG out 4/14/10