Hi Liz,
So sorry about the news. I have been away, then doing my own 'might be last lunch with siblings ' thing on Monday, before starting 'second round' tomorrow and Thursday.
I'm sure your actions helped give Rob the space he needed to reflect and to give him an opportunity to demonstrate his love for you. It DOES 'MATTER A DAMN' because that reassurance will hopefully help you over the next few weeks.
I'm thinking of you both and am so glad they've got the pain sorted out.
You know where I am, let us know how things progress,
love Brenda x

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!