Welcome to the forum, Barb, and good fortune in the coming battle, whatever form it takes. "Frack" is a word used in Battlestar Galactica in place of a well known 4 letter word, if I may be so bold as answer for Eric.

David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.