Hi Kerri,

I understand just what you mean. I had my last surgery in February, 2009. I have had 4 partial glossectomies. I know what you mean about these words being in our vocabulary, It's crazy!! It will get easier and talking about what you are feeling with family and people here will help. Just let yourself feel what you need to. We are all here to help and support you. This is a great site for that. I imagine you go every 2 months, like I do. I actually just stopped typing and told my husband that I'm scared b/c my doc found bumps on my tongue yesterday. She said not to worry, but I can't help it. He reminded me, and I will remind you....if we go every 2 months if something is there, it will be found early. Keep us posted and let us know how you're doing.