I think he is suffering the depression phrase of this OC. It hits at different times for all of us it seems from what I read in the posts. You will suffer the most with this if it is ,, good luck and bear with him.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here