Thanks Gary

I finally decided to block out everything that is not helpful and useful in our lives right now. Caller ID is great.

We have been married for 12 yrs and this truly tests your relationship. It sure makes your bond stronger and you appreciate each other more.

I know that we will get through this, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I know I constantly nag him with encouragement and he thinks I'm crazy but I cannot afford to give in to this. The minute I give up, its over. I have been very successful at not letting him see me crying or melting down. That is the last thing he needs.

We watched the Lance Armstrong documentary on Discovery channel last night and it helped our morale.

Today is looking like a good day already. Thanks Gary. I will need to get some info from Danny Boy


wife to 36 yr old husband diagnosed with SCC on 7/6/05, tongue dissection and radical neck dissection on 7/15/05, 2nd biopsy on 9/15/05 and found carcinoma in-situ. Starting radiation and chemo on Oct 05