Glib, your wife can join the OCF forum as well. This may help her to feel more in control. As a caregiver, she has a very difficult job in the near future. If she joins OCF she will be able to connect with other OC caregivers and find moral support which many caregivers need too. Some caregivers will need to use anxiety meds for a short while to help them handle all the stress. We are here for both of you.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile