Right on, Donna - Sharing our fears, especially with someone who understands, is much easier to bear. It gives the fear less power. The reverse is also true in that sharing a joy increases the good feelings it brings. I think that's why we are all so happy when one of us has passed a happy milestone in recovery. I can still remember (4 years ago) how my 5 year old grandaughter and I danced around the kitchen when we saw how her Daddy was able to actually taste and enjoy a gourmet jelly bean!