| | Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) |  Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | I am sure that Patty would liked to have had a few miore days to carry out her plans to sit outside with her dogs and if she was up to it too do a little in her garden,.Just her and her dogs. It seems she told me andChristine a lot of things in private, She was just so special in my life like she was to all. She always ended with I love you. That was nice and I will always cherish her memory, If anyone of you have gone to her obituary she was beautiful just as i had thought she was,very beautiful with long flowing hair.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
| | | | | Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | I wish I could have made it to her house and cuddled to her as she wanted. It's too late for the if things, but I should have ignored her thinking it was too for me to travel and just gone and held her close. It would have mde us both feel much better and gave her her one wish to let people know how beautiful she was.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 475 | I am so saddend by this news. Patti wanted so much to help OCF spread awareness, she joined as volunteer in her state. She would email me and say she wanted to do anything that she could. I thank her with all my heart. OCF wants to thank her for all of her help during her courageous battle. We have lost one wonderful person.
Even more reason to get the word out about this terrible, terrible disease.
My sincere sympathies to her family.
Susan Lauria - OCF Director of Events - Always looking for volunteers to help spread the word about early detection! Contact me if you can help!
*Brother passed away from tongue cancer in 2006 at age 47, was co-caregiver, he was non-smoker/casual drinker
LETS MAKE ORAL CANCER HISTORY!
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ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 475 Platinum Member (300+ posts) | | Platinum Member (300+ posts)
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 475 | Thank you Christine, I just went to the site.
Susan Lauria - OCF Director of Events - Always looking for volunteers to help spread the word about early detection! Contact me if you can help!
*Brother passed away from tongue cancer in 2006 at age 47, was co-caregiver, he was non-smoker/casual drinker
LETS MAKE ORAL CANCER HISTORY!
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Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 238 | It's been a few days since I was on the Forum and I was absolutely shocked to hear about Patty. I didn't think it would be this quick, even though it is a blessing for her. I went to the funeral home website too and signed the guestbook. It was really good to put a face with my thoughts of Patty. She was definitely a beautiful lady both inside and out. I am sure that her positive and caring ways have paved a life in heaven with no pain and lots of "puppers". We will all miss her support and kindness. Take care, Patty.
Nancy
CG/Mom: 5 1/2 years SCC upper palate,4 recurrences, surgeries, chemo & radiation. Mom went to Heaven 1/21/11.
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Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 1,004 | This is so sad. Patty was such a wonderful person and I loved talking to here and on Facebook. She was everyone's biggest cheerleader. She will be missed so very much.
Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)
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