#77920     08-02-2008 09:31 AM      |       Joined:  Apr 2005  Posts: 60    Supporting Member (50+ posts)   |      OP      Supporting Member (50+ posts)    Joined:  Apr 2005  Posts: 60  |    On July 31st 12.49am Richard passed away peacfully, pain free with courage and dignity, Surrounded by his family and friends.
  I would like to thank you all for the support you have given us over the past 3 years, without it I would have gone stir crazy, being able to log on at any time and post my fears and woes and receiving replies from people who have stood in my shoes and knew exactly how I felt, was invaluable and both I and Richard thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
  G_d bless you Rich, I love you.........
  Sammie        
C/G to Husband Richard SCC Op 4/1/2005 T2N0M0,Neck disection, 35% of tongue removed. Reoccurance 3/2007,Lymph Node same side Positive SCC, Swelled to 2.5 inches. IMRT X35 Cis X3 Completed 33 IMRT Cis x2 carbo X1 MET to lungs post treatment 10/04/2007 Passed peacefully 31st July 2008.
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jun 2008  Posts: 309    Platinum Member (300+ posts)   |           Platinum Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Jun 2008  Posts: 309  |    my prayers are with you and your family.  i am new here, but my heart goes out to you.  we lost my cousin this morning to cancer too...  heaven is richer today and we all will miss our loved ones greatly.  peace be to you Sammie (HUGS)        
Rita - Age 44  wife, mother of 4 - ages 3,16,21,24 & grandma to 1 (R upper) Maxillectomy 8/8/08 - UW / Seattle, WA.  
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  "Those who think by the inch and speak by the yard, should be kicked by the foot." 
 
     |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Feb 2007  Posts: 1,940    "OCF across the pond" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |           "OCF across the pond" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Feb 2007  Posts: 1,940  |    Hi sammie
  i was just rereading a message you sent me last year when i was waiting to go for an ultrasound on my clavicle node.tonight it is my turn to have tears in my eyes as i read of yet another caring loving partner being left alone and grieving.
  god bless sweetheart
  liz        
Liz in the UK
  Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007 Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
  Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jan 2008  Posts: 706    "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2008  Posts: 706  |    Sammie- I'm so sorry. God Bless you.        
cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Sep 2003  Posts: 1,244    Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |           Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Sep 2003  Posts: 1,244  |    Sammie Candles and prayers to you all. May the strength you have gained help you now. Sunshine.. love and hugs  Helen        
SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 5,260    Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 5,260  |      These posts all  moved me and I have you in my prayers. God bless.        
     Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan.  I averaged  about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there.  w  Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube .  Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April. --- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8    Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8  |     Sammie  Im sorry for your loss.  
         ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44  2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07  -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma  2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years  very happy to be alive       |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jan 2008  Posts: 179    Senior Member (100+ posts)   |           Senior Member (100+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2008  Posts: 179  |    Sammie, I am so sorry to hear this news. I am thinking of you now and sending you prayers!        
Dad: Age 65 Heavy smoker/drinker.  Biopsy-No surgery. Cancer base of tongue/throat. "Invasive Squamous Carcinoma RRT" --Beginning 1/9/08: IMRT treatments (5X/wk),chemo pills (4/day) and Chemo IV (once/wk) PEG tube inserted 1/25/08. Treatments ended 2/26/08
  JUNE 30, 2008 Officially CANCER FREE!!!    |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  May 2007  Posts: 231    Gold Member (200+ posts)   |           Gold Member (200+ posts)    Joined:  May 2007  Posts: 231  |    I am so sorry to hear of your loss Sammie. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.        
Dx Mar 07 with Base Of Tongue Stage IV. IMRT 35x with 3 doses Cysplatin ran concurrent. Tx ended May 31,07. Left and right node involved. Radical neck disection 7/18/07
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Feb 2004  Posts: 598    "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)    Joined:  Feb 2004  Posts: 598  |    Our thoughts and prayers are with you.           Jeff SCC Right BOT  Dx 3/28/2007 T2N2a M0G1,Stage IVa Bilateral Neck Dissection 4/11/2007 39 x IMRT, 8 x Cisplatin Ended 7/11/07 Complete response to treatment so far!!
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