#76238 06-27-2008 06:13 PM | Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 24 Member | OP  Member
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 24 | Thanks to all of you who were so encouraging to my husband Pete. Pete died in the hospital on June 18, from double pneumonia and severe breathing difficulties due to complications of the radiation treatments. He tried VERY hard to get well and dotted every "i" and crossed every "t" He had world class doctors and a very caring and competent team of professionals working with him along the way, but it was just not to be. He gained many valuable insights from this forum, and was able to reduce a great deal of stress along the way from hearing from all of you and reading the posts. To those of you still waging the war, remain strong-Pete would want the best for all of you.
Mrs. Pete60 | | | | | Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
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Mrs Pete:
Im very sorry for your loss.
Christine
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 598 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) | | "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)
Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 598 | Mrs. Pete -- terribly, terribly sorry for your loss. I loved to read Pete's posts, as he was diagnosed around the time I was diagnosed, and I was amazed at how strong he was approaching the second bout of radiation. He will be missed.
Jeff
SCC Right BOT Dx 3/28/2007
T2N2a M0G1,Stage IVa
Bilateral Neck Dissection 4/11/2007
39 x IMRT, 8 x Cisplatin Ended 7/11/07
Complete response to treatment so far!!
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Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 939 | Mrs. Pete,
Thank you for posting. We are all so sorry that Pete, despite a strong spirit, didn't make it. So sad, so sad.
Sending thoughts and strength you way,
Deb
Deb..caregiver to husband, age 63 at diagnosis, former smoker who quit in 1997.
DIAGNOSIS: 6/26/07 SCC right tonsil/BOT T4N0M0
TREATMENT START: 8/9/07 cisplatin/taxol X 7..IMRT twice daily X 31.5.
TREATMENT END: 10/1/07
PEG OUT: 1/08
PORT OUT: 4/09
FOLLOWUP: Now only annual exams. ALL CLEAR!
Passed away 1/7/17 RIP Bill
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Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 388 | Our sincerest of condolences with the loss of Pete. During this time of grief, you were very kind to wish the other members of the OCF forum the best in their struggles. Warmly, JaneP
Husband: 3 SCC gum and cheek cancers 2002, 2005, 2006: surgery only. Scans clear after removal of small, well differentiated, non-invasive cancers. No radiation. 4th SCC lip diagnosed 4/13/07 - in situ, removed in biopsy. More lip removed 2/8/08 - dysplasia. 2 Biopsies 3/17/09 no cancer (lichenoids)
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Joined: May 2008 Posts: 219 | Mrs.Pete60, My heart goes out to you and your family. I also lost my husband in Feb. 2008. I am relatively new to this board and I agree that it has as well given me many valuable insights and being able to talk to someone else who has been there sure has given me comfort. God Bless, Angel
SCC left tonsil, tonsillectomy with additional tissue removed 06/10/08, a few teeth on top left side removed 09/05/08,recurrence before treatment started at BOT and tonsil area, 35 IMRT treatments began 10/15/08, and Cisplatin IV (began10/16/08) weekly for duration of radiation.
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Joined: May 2007 Posts: 104 | Mrs.Pete60, I am so sorry for you loss of Pete. THis is just and ugly, evil disease. My heart aches for you, and prayers going up to help you thru. I know your heartache. My daughter fought the fight too, and lost to this terrible disease....thinking of you.
Jordan's Mom. Linda
She fought the fight with courage, hope and dedication. Ten months of battling tongue cancer. They thought they had it after each treatment. Not to be. Christa died at 32 y/o in Nov. '07.
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Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 | MrsPete, I am so sorry for your loss. I hate this disease.
Nelie
SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | Mrs Pete, This is a shocker to me. I just had a feeling pete would beat this nasty disease . He encouraged me a few times and I appreciated it very much. I always read whatever he posted on here and gained new insites form most of them. I am so sorry for his passing and especially for you and your family.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 735 | Mrs Pete ..
SOO SOO sorry for your Loss... Ths disease is a horrible one , I only hope that one day they can find a cure so no one else has to suffer ......Not only the Patients but the Loving Family and Friends !
Sharlee
35 year old Female Non smoker, very occasional alcohol ..Scc T1N0M0,partial glossectomy and left neck disection ,2/9/07 No rad deemed ness. 4/16 tonsillectomy ..Trimengenial Neuralga due to surgery
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