#5253     03-29-2005 09:53 AM      |       Joined:  Dec 2003  Posts: 528    "OCF Down Under" "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)   |           "OCF Down Under" "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)    Joined:  Dec 2003  Posts: 528  |    Dear Donna
  Your post is full of the love you feel for your beloved husband. I offer my condolences and thank you for posting your story. The message is clear - we must trust and act upon our intuition.
  Love and light from Helen        
RHTonsil SCC Stage IV tx completed May 03
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#5254     03-29-2005 10:01 AM      |       Joined:  Apr 2004  Posts: 482    "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Apr 2004  Posts: 482  |    Donna, I was sorry to read of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.        
Regards, Kirk Georgia Stage IV, T1N2aM0, right tonsil primary, Tonsilectomy 11/03, 35 rad/3cisplatin chemo, right neck dissection 1/04 - 5/04.
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#5255     03-29-2005 10:32 AM      |       Joined:  Jul 2003  Posts: 382 Likes: 3    Platinum Member (300+ posts)   |           Platinum Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Jul 2003  Posts: 382 Likes: 3  |    Donna- I too am so sorry to your husband lost the battle.My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. - Kris        
SCC Stage IV left tonsil neck disection 3/02 radiation finished 6/02 chemo finished 9/02  Stage 2A left breast cancer 3/09, chemo and radiation, finished treatment 2/7/10 -Stage 2 right beast cancer 10/14 chemo and radiation Every day is still a gift :-)
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#5256     03-29-2005 11:36 AM      |       Joined:  Jan 2005  Posts: 108    Gold Member (100+ posts)   |           Gold Member (100+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2005  Posts: 108  |    Dear Donna; I understand how hard it is to say goodbye to a loved one who was just so worthwhile,who made this world a better place while he was here.  Please accept my sympathy on your loss. Thank you for sharing with us. Blessings,  Fran        
SCC Base of tongue diag. April 04 Stage IV, mets to rt. neck multiple nodes 35 rads+8 boosts First recurrence Jan05. Rt.rad neck dissection Feb02/05. Recurred with bone mets in neck July 05. Committed to survival with dignity.
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#5257     03-29-2005 02:35 PM      |       Joined:  Aug 2004  Posts: 217    Platinum Member (200+ posts)   |           Platinum Member (200+ posts)    Joined:  Aug 2004  Posts: 217  |    Dear Donna,  Tom and I add our sincere condolences to the others here.  Your message gave me a sudden chill, and I will heed your advice as Tom recovers from treatments. You were obviously blessed to have had Smitty in your life - - I believe the love will linger still. With love,  Nicki        
Nicki, wife of Thomas dx July 2004, SCC, Stage 4 Tonsil.  Tx begun 8/4/04. Cisplatin/Xeloda x 4; IMRT 7 wks, 8/7 - 10/25/04 Modified Radical Dissection (right), Selective Dissection (Left) 12/10/04.
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#5258     03-29-2005 05:21 PM      |       Joined:  Aug 2003  Posts: 1,627    Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |           Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Aug 2003  Posts: 1,627  |    Donna, Just adding my sympathies for your loss and wishing there was a way to make it easier for you. Minnie        
SCC Left Mandible. Jaw replaced with bone from leg. Neck disection, 37 radiation treatments. Recurrence 8-28-07, stage 2, tongue. One third of tongue removed 10-4-07. 5-23-08 chemo started for tumor behind swallowing passage, Our good friend and much loved OCF member Minnie has been lost to the disease (RIP 10-29-08). We will all miss her greatly.
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#5259     03-29-2005 11:24 PM      |       Joined:  Sep 2003  Posts: 30    Contributing Member (25+ posts)   |           Contributing Member (25+ posts)    Joined:  Sep 2003  Posts: 30  |    Dear Donna, I'm so sorry for your lost.  You are in my prayers.  Mary O.      |      |       |                      
#5260     03-30-2005 05:10 AM      |       Joined:  Jan 2005  Posts: 156    Gold Member (100+ posts)   |           Gold Member (100+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2005  Posts: 156  |    donna,                                                    please accept my sincere condolences god be with you at this sad time,               hugs and prayers  maz      |      |       |                      
#5261     03-30-2005 08:31 AM      |       Joined:  Mar 2005  Posts: 14    Member   |           Member    Joined:  Mar 2005  Posts: 14  |    dear donna please accept my sincere condolences.  My heart goes out to you.  As a caregiver also,  I can only imagine how you are feeling.  May your sweet memories guide you through this sad time in your life.  My prayers are with you.      |      |       |                
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