Hi Nelie; Going through oral cancer treatment is the hardest I think of all the Tx's out there. What is so amazing is that we do it, we survive, we live on to help others make the journey.
May you feel uplifted by the the positive thoughts winging your way from all your e-friends here at OCF.There is a deep pool of empathy here and you can share as much and as often as you want. I also agree that your complaints are more than legit and far from whining.
You will do it, and I believe you are tough enough already. Your one and only job right now is to rest as much as you can and look after your body and soul. Minute by minute the time will pass and this will be behind you..just like the last 3 weeks.
We're with you!
Fran

SCC Base of tongue diag. April 04 Stage IV, mets to rt. neck multiple nodes 35 rads+8 boosts First recurrence Jan05. Rt.rad neck dissection Feb02/05. Recurred with bone mets in neck July 05.
Committed to survival with dignity.