Deb,
That's a tough call and only one that you, your husband and your medical team can make.
With that said, I'll tell you what happened to us...Our MO told us the chance of my husband's hearing being impacted by Cisplatin was very slim...and, we were bummed when he started to notice a problem within a week of his first of 3 planned treatments.
Initially, our MO was weighing out the pros and cons of
Erbitux/Certuximab vs. Cisplatin. It appears that Cisplatin is the gold standard, so we went with it knowing the risks.
When the ringing and hearing issues developed we then weighed out Carbo and
Erbitux with his MO. We went with
Erbitux. What we were told is that it has been an effective option for tonsil and base of tongue cancers. However, it's a newer treatment option so there aren't long term studies on it.
We were told that with the one dose of Cisplatin that my husband got at least 60% of the benefit of the drug...and, they were happy when he chose the
Erbitux.
We had toyed with the idea of participating in a study that would have used both drugs. But, we opted out of it knowing we wouldn't stay on the study if the Cisplatin impacted his hearing. So, in a way, they are happy he got both drugs.
We were told, that if the hearing thing became an issue they would switch him...which they did. So, the actual hearing loss is small, but we were told it would have been greater if we continued.
So, that's our experience.
But, I don't consider ourselves experts and I rely very heavily on my medical team when it comes to big decisions like this. I wish you luck in making your decision.
You are in the tough part. Treatment sucks, but at least you can start to count down the days. I did not enjoy the consultative, planning phase...I found it overwhelming. I wish you both luck and strength!
Best,