[quote=Vernon]Thanks The way I am trying to work this out is it is just a few weeks stop thinking about so much about what you don't have and more about what you do have. The hair started coming out on sat and I got my daughter to shave it off. When I went to Chemo today I felt more like the family
of fighters. Thanks[/quote]

Hi Vernon,

If you incorporate that as your basic philosophy, I promise you that your life will improve markedly. It's the philosophy of the Warrior.

Thinking about what you've lost is avoiding the reality that is now your only reality. Good things seldom result from attempting to avoid that.

And it may change many more times before your final sunset.

My intro: http://oralcancersupport.org/forums/ubbt...3644#Post163644

09/09 - Dx OC Stg IV
10/09 - Chemo/3 Cisplatin, 40 rad
11/09 - PET CLEAN
07/11 - Dx Stage IV C. (Liver)
06/12 - PET CLEAN
09/12 - PET Dist Met (Liver)
04/13 - PET CLEAN
06/13 - PET Dist Met (Liver + 1 lymph node)
10/13 - PET - Xeloda ineffective
11/13 - Liver packed w/ SIRI-Spheres
02/14 - PET - Siri-Spheres effective, 4cm tumor in lymph-node
03/15 - Begin 15 Rads
03/24 - Final Rad! Woot!
7/27/14 Bart passed away. RIP!