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Joined: Oct 2013 Posts: 6 | Sorry I didn't do this first. I'm Heather and I'm a 45yr old non-smoker who has a lump around 1cm on my inner bottom lip. It is soft and skin coloured/pink with no ulceration. I am having it biopsied this Friday and am scared. The oral surgeon said it didn't belong there but when I asked him it he thought it was bad he said "he would be surprised if it was" which I take as a good sign.
I'll try and work out a signature but not too good at IT stuff.
45yr female, never smoked, casual drinker, HPV negative I assume, 1cm lump inner bottom lip, biopsy 18/10/13
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Joined: Jul 2012 Posts: 3,267 Likes: 4 | Welcome, Heather. So far, so good, and it's not cancer until proven by biopsy, which may not change the typical wait and worry until then, but try to keep busy, which may help keep your mind from worrying too much.
Good luck.
10/09 T1N2bM0 Tonsil
11/09 Taxo Cisp 5-FU, 6 Months Hosp
01/11 35 IMRT 70Gy 7 Wks
06/11 30 HBO
08/11 RND PNI
06/12 SND PNI LVI
08/12 RND Pec Flap IORT 12 Gy
10/12 25 IMRT 50Gy 6 Wks Taxo Erbitux
10/13 SND
10/13 TBO/Angiograph
10/13 RND Carotid Remove IORT 10Gy PNI
12/13 25 Protons 50Gy 6 Wks Carbo
11/14 All Teeth Extract 30 HBO
03/15 Sequestromy Buccal Flap ORN
09/16 Mandibulectomy Fib Flap Sternotomy
04/17 Regraft hypergranulation Donor Site
06/17 Heart Attack Stent
02/19 Finally Cancer Free Took 10 yrs
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | There could be all kinds of different things the sore in your mouth is. Best to do the biopsy and be certain what you are dealing with.
Hope its nothing serious!
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Oct 2013 Posts: 559 Likes: 1 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) | | "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)
Joined: Oct 2013 Posts: 559 Likes: 1 | Heather:
Whether it's cancer, or whether it's not, we're still family.
So let us know what you find out.
Tony
Tony, 69, non-smoker, aerobatics pilot, bridge player/teacher, avid dancer (ballroom, latin, swing, country)
09/13 SCC, HPV 16, tonsillectomy, T2N0.
11/13 start rads, no chemo
12/13 taste gone, dry mouth,
02/14 hair slowly returning
05/14 taste the same, dry sinuses, irrigation helps.
01/15 food taste about 60% returned, dry sinuses are worse in winter.
12/20 no more sinus problems, taste pretty good
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Fingers and toes crossed!
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Apr 2013 Posts: 319 | MY best wishes, Heather!
Try to realize that you have done all you can at this moment; and then direct your thoughts to some completely different topic that would ordinarily occupy them if you weren't concerned about the lump.
It could well be benign, but since the usual human tendency is to focus on the worst possible outcome, thoughts usually go in that direction if you give them a chance. Since they are your thoughts, take charge and direct them away.
If you do this, and you can, you will save yourself a lot of un-necessary and un-helpful mental anguish.
I've read that the Chinese ideogram for "Danger" is the same as for "Opportunity." Use this to your advantage; when you need a place to direct your unbidden negative thoughts, use this opportunity to direct them to taking an inventory of those things that you love and/or enjoy in life.
Be aware that life only exists in the moment. The previous moments are all gone, never to be repeated, and the next moment is uncertain. People drop dead for no apparent reason all the time, and none of them expected it. So, this moment is the most precious in your life because you HAVE it. DO NOT miss this fact, or you will be missing life when you need it most.
My intro: http://oralcancersupport.org/forums/ubbt...3644#Post16364409/09 - Dx OC Stg IV 10/09 - Chemo/3 Cisplatin, 40 rad 11/09 - PET CLEAN 07/11 - Dx Stage IV C. (Liver) 06/12 - PET CLEAN 09/12 - PET Dist Met (Liver) 04/13 - PET CLEAN 06/13 - PET Dist Met (Liver + 1 lymph node) 10/13 - PET - Xeloda ineffective 11/13 - Liver packed w/ SIRI-Spheres 02/14 - PET - Siri-Spheres effective, 4cm tumor in lymph-node 03/15 - Begin 15 Rads 03/24 - Final Rad! Woot! 7/27/14 Bart passed away. RIP!
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Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 269 | Hi heather, my best thoughts and wishes. I'm going with what Bart said. Good word Bart. We are all here with you while you wait for your diagnosis.
Nancy (53 at dx)
Metastatic SCC. Stage III. HPV positive with occult primary. N1, no ecs
7/1/11 - L-Selective neck dissection. Tonsillectomy. All clean. No rad, no chemo.
5/29/13 - Found primary
7/3/13 - TORS
7/8/13 - Emergency Surgery/Blood vessel burst in throat
8/9/13 - Peg in
9/3/13 - Radiation starts 30 IMRT, 60gy BOT, 56gy both sides of neck
10/14/13 - Radiation ended!
11/12/13 - PEG out!
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Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 5,264 Likes: 5 | Hi - you've gotten a. Pretty great welcome for everyone here and some good advice so I just want to say - good luck, and I hope it's not cancer, if it is we're here to help.
Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan
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Joined: Aug 2013 Posts: 54 | Heather....welcome to the "group". I'm praying it comes back "not cancer". But either way.....let us know. You've got a great group of friends here to support you if it is and celebrate with you if it's not.
48 yo female, quit smoking 4yrs ago, light drinker, Stage 2 SCC, Bx3, Dx 8/22/13, surgery 9/11/13. Partial glossectomy, bilateral neck dissection levels 1-4. Tongue reconstruction with flap from forearm. 87 Lymph nodes CLEAR. Tongue margins good at 1 cm. No further treatment planned. Monthly monitoring planned for upcoming year then periodic monitoring for next 4
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Joined: Sep 2013 Posts: 105 | Hi Heather,
Welcome, so glad you have found this forum. Friends and knowledge are empowering. Thoughts are with you through this difficult time of waiting.
Sophie
husband 61@diagnosis painter
6/9/13 Exophylic invasive SCC IV(ext.gingivobuccal) 3cm+ mandibular/lytic/erosion, jugular/node9mmshort-axis
17/9/13 Dx(moderately aggressive)
24/10/13 left madiblectomy, mod radical neck disct, leg flap, NGtube
2/01/14 (30 tx)rads 60gy
N2b (2nodes under jaw) (rem. in tiny nerves) (rem. 30 nodes)
Clear margin, close 2mm inner cheek
15/05/14 cellulitis
3/12/14 Chest CT Clear
27/02/15 cellulitis
8/6/15 cellulitis
10/6/15 Osteomyelitis
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