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| Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 531 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) | "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 531 | I thought the same thing with the signature. So sorry he passed but yes it was quick and peaceful. Was he having any other issues that were not in signature? I hate to ask but do they know what happened? I also worry that I will find my Ron like that, scares me half to death myself but I'd rather prefer that way than to watch him go thru all the pain and suffering he is going to have to go thru now. I am scared.
CG to Ron Out of Pain 4/3/13 4/12-lung and under chin growth no treatment 1/13/12 lung biopsy 6/11 recur 6/30 resection #2 Clear margins Clear 12/10 Surg 5/13/10 neck dis/nodes part gloss/flap R thigh all teeth out RAD 30 8/10 DX 4/2/10 "Oral Cavity" T3NOMO 12/28/07 Non Hodg Lymph remission 7/08 passed away 4.3.15, RIP Ron, you are greatly missed
| | | | Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 307 Platinum Member (300+ posts) | OP Platinum Member (300+ posts) Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 307 | I was talking to Ron's sister last night who is a nurse. We both agree that the damage from the radiation is what killed him. He had been having gum issues and they had lazered a couple of areas on his gums over the past year. His poor mouth was in such bad shape and I think he got a severe infection that went through his blood stream and attacked his heart. That's the only thing that makes sense. But what's strange is the day he died was a normal, good day. There were no signs that this was going to happen. Even his Doctors were shocked when they heard the news. My only comfort is he went in his sleep and he is no longer in pain. I know he is in a better place, it's just hard on the rest of us left behind. Thank you all for the kind words and support. It means a lot.
Love,
Shelley
Caregiver to husband Ron. Throat Cancer. Finished 35 radiation treatments on 11/21/04. 8/2/11 small lesion on lower gum, laser Procedure to remove. 3/6/12 Doc. removed another lesion on outside of his neck. Did a skin graft from his chest to replace the skin on his neck. Went to Heaven on 6/24/12.
| | | | Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 531 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) | "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 531 | I understand completely bout the suddeness. Like I told Ron's Dr's you can't tell him how long he has left, nobody knows when they are going to die because we all are dying everyday we live. So that is why I say to him to live each day as it comes and enjoy it to the fullest because you never know when it will be the last. God Bless you and your family and God Rest his Soul and never stop talking to him because he is all around you, I believe in that, ya I watch that show Long Island Medium and love it and cry while I watch it. One of these days I'd like to speak to my mom and find out why she died. Nobody could tell us.
CG to Ron Out of Pain 4/3/13 4/12-lung and under chin growth no treatment 1/13/12 lung biopsy 6/11 recur 6/30 resection #2 Clear margins Clear 12/10 Surg 5/13/10 neck dis/nodes part gloss/flap R thigh all teeth out RAD 30 8/10 DX 4/2/10 "Oral Cavity" T3NOMO 12/28/07 Non Hodg Lymph remission 7/08 passed away 4.3.15, RIP Ron, you are greatly missed
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