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Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 123 | I just wanted to let you know Ken passed away suddenly yesterday morning. I woke up to commotion and he was bleed profusely from his mouth. We called 911 and by the time they got here from the next town over he was basically gone. They said a blood vessel must have burst. They said it was likely either from radiation damage or that the cancer had started to erode one of his arteries.
It was the most horrific thing I have ever experienced. He had been so strong through all of this and he was so scared at the end. I am glad it happened quickly though in the grand scheme of things. I can only hope that he is now at peace and watching over me and Morgan.
Thank you very much for all of the support you gave us during these last few months.
Jill..CG to Ken, age 43,mom of 1yr old girl.
DIAG:12/9/10 SCC BOT T4N0M0 HPV+
START:1/3/11 IMRT dailyX35 and 7 chemo
END:2/23/11 PEG IN:1/15/11 Out:4/26/11
CT/MRI 4/25/11-marked improvement CT 6/11 new spots
BX 6/23-cancer present
Total Glossectomy sched 7/20/11
7/19/11 Ken's suffering ended
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Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 475 | I am truly sorry, you have my deepest sympathies.
Please hold on to all the good memories, they will carry you through . . ..
Susan
Susan Lauria - OCF Director of Events - Always looking for volunteers to help spread the word about early detection! Contact me if you can help!
*Brother passed away from tongue cancer in 2006 at age 47, was co-caregiver, he was non-smoker/casual drinker
LETS MAKE ORAL CANCER HISTORY!
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Joined: Aug 2010 Posts: 75 | I am so, so sorry! This is one of my greatest fears, Thinking of you, take care!
CG to sp age 53
4/10 BOT IVb
6/10 Ttl Gloss Lrngectmy L Mndbltmy 5+ Nodes
7/10 Cispl & Rad
1/11 recur lung mets
2/11 Clin Tr Erb Carb 5FU last 5/11
7/11 Tumor growth began wkly Bleo, Taxol, Carbo
10/28/11 Hospice; Passed 11/7/11
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Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 794 | God bless Ken and all of you. So sorry for your loss.
Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.
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Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 126 | Sending thoughts and prayers, so sorry to hear of your loss.
Sharon
Sharon, 57; Hard Palate; T1, High Grade, DX 6-12-09, Surgery, maxillectomy 7-14-09, 33 RT (9-2-09 to 10-19-09); Prothesis (obturator). None smoker, non drinker.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Jill, I am so sorry to hear of Ken's passing. You were a wonderful caregiver to him. May he rest in peace.
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 58 Supporting Member (50+ posts) | | Supporting Member (50+ posts)
Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 58 | Jill, I am so sorry. Of course he is at peace now, and no longer in pain, and of course with you and Morgan always.
Bonnie
CG to husb John, 57, love of my life for 35 yrs.
Dx 2/10, T2N2cMx, SCC BOT & lymph nodes.
Non smoker. Biopsy HPV+.
No surgery - IMRT 35X + 7 chemos cleared BOT
9/10-mets to lungs.
2 rounds chemo, last one trial drug which did not work.
Lost the battle, but walking in Glory 9/7/11.
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Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 875 | That is so sad, Jill, and just want to add my sympathy, along with all the others. Knowing Ken is in Gods loving hands should comfort you, and he is now free from pain! You now have a wonderful, peaceful Guardian Angel watching over you and Morgan. Congratulations.
Hugs from Julieann
Julieann Nov 2007 SCC on right tonsil following tonsillectomy. Was smoker, QUIT. (Stage IV T2 N2b) 7 weeks radiation one day/wk chemo (carboplatin and 5-FU). Allergic to Taxol; PEG in, lost 30 lbs. TX completed January 2008. PEG out mid- 2008. PET/CT 1/17/2011;2/3/12 NEGATIVE for cancer | | | | | Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | I'm so sorry, Jill - I cannot imagine the pain and the sadness you must be feeling and how difficult it must have been for both you and Ken. I'm sure that he is with you in spirit, and wanting so much to comfort you. I hope that in the days ahead, you will be able to find peace in the happy memories you both shared.
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 167 | There are no words - my thoughts are with you.
Jennifer (39)
02/10 SCCa Tongue & Base, HPV-
03/10 Partial Glossectomy & ND 11/10 Revision due to additional nodes 12/20-2/2/11 IMRT & concommitant chemo 2/11 PEG in 3/11 PEG out
Back at work and feeling good 03/24/11!
12/20/11 - 9 month f/u PET/CT - all clear!
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