Unfortunately, my family and I found this 1 week before my father in law passed away from oral cancer.

The link below is very helpful and will guide anyone who has been diagnosed with cancer and the best way to treat yourself. I hope this is helpful:
http://blochcancer.org/2009/02/letter-to-new-patients/


*KATIE*
future FIL dx with s4 SCC in jaw11/09 15 hour surg/trach/PEG in. 7 weeks of cisplatin/rads. 6/10- cancerous lung nodule- 1 wk of radiation. 8/13 pneumonia. 8/24 pulmonary embolism, on ventillator. 9/3/10 died peacefully w/o pain with family. 9/17/10 my wedding