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#117838 06-12-2010 10:47 AM
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Hi all

My grandma is 85 years old and has tongue cancer. Doctor said she cannot do the surgery for the tongue removal since she is too old and her heart will not be able to handle it. and chemo treatment alone is not going to help her. So without any methods, her tongue is swelling and starting to bleed recently. Is there anyway to make her feel better and what is it going to happen? Is that really nothing we can help?

Thank you!

lilbae #117847 06-12-2010 12:46 PM
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To avoid confusion, please post your question in only one area. Here is the response I gave under the caregiver tab....

I am so sorry to read your post. Im sure your grandmother and the entire family is going thru a terrible time. Go for a second or even third opinion at a cancer center immediately. If there is nothing anyone can do for her then look into hospice. It will keep her comfortable.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile

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