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Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 794 | My mom was dx with ORN a few weeks back, they took her in last Thursday to do biopsy to see if she was clear for HBO. The waiting is awful. Believe it or not, this is only her second biopsy, first was done week before last and was compromised. This time around I have a better idea of what everything means, not that I fully understand it by any means, but given just a little more education leads my mind to go places it shouldn't.
She returns to surgeon's office (different one by the way!) on the 30th to find out results. I know the rule, it's not cancer until a biopsy says it is...heart and mind just want to know yesterday!
Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | I'm sure all understand the frustration you are going thru Donna. Come and take one of my Meths. It will relax you. I remember when it used to be waiting for the bus and even something that common was frustrating. I pray everything comes back a big negative for your mom.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 794 | Thanks for the offer of your meth's...you slay me every
time! Something so normal/common to be frustrated about would be different, though, I have noticed since mom's original diagnosis I have changed so much. I'd be a liar if I said I don't get frustrated daily-if you knew some of the people I deal with on a daily basis, you would appreciate my shortcomings. I no longer get upset waiting for the person ahead of me to go through the green light, I NEVER honk, who knows what is running through their mind? oh hell, I can go from totally chilled to psycho bitch in a nano second over certain conditions, usually involving my relationship with Ed...only been that way since the accident in january. For some reason he thinks it's fun to aggravate me. What the heck is wrong with him?
Mom said thank you and asked how you are? wants to know what's new?
Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.
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Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 2,219 | Donna,
Give me a call if you need to talk.
Jerry
Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.
"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | Play kick the can with his can Donna, You might enjoy it. I sure hope it doesn't trun him on tho.. unlessssssssssss LOL
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 794 | Thanks Jerry, I will call soon! (not tonight)
Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.
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Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 794 | We finally cleared the air. Am better now. I will keep the game in mind for the future! We used to play that game when I was a kid--such fun!
Thanks.
Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.
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Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 794 | Mom's results are cancer free! She is clear to start back up with her HBO tx's! She will have to see her surgeon again in six weeks for follow up, hoping that the dives help heal her and ease her pain!
As always, thank you for your support!
Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.
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Joined: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,116 | YEAAAAAA! So happy for your Mom's clear results!!!!!!!
Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10
---update passed away 8-27-11---
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Congrats to you and your mom for the best possible results!!!!!
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | |
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