Wow...those pictures in that blog are hard to look at.
Jaanika,
I know you wish you could do something but the bottom line is, you can't force a person to do something. He has to WANT to. My husband smokes...I have cancer, his father has cancer and his aunt and my unlce just died from cancer....and...he still smokes. I am so sorry for what you are dealing with and I hope for your sake and your family, he quits.