Hello everyone, I am Rob, and I am new.My Wife was Diagnosed stage 3 hard palate SCC in mid Jan. She has been receiving chemo and radiation 5 times a week. Today they told her that it has progressed to stage 4A and it is now in her left side Lymph nodes and sinuses. I will be talking to the doctor Wednesday, and was wondering if any of you had any advice as to the most important questions to ask at this stage.