You guys are right, I shouldn't lump all dr's as bad.  It's just that I'm feeling really let down and confused.  I made an appt. with another ENT here for Thurs.  I'll work on trying to find a way to get to Ohio State also.  I don't expect a dr. to hold my hand or pat me on the head but I DO expect them to answer at least a couple of questions and to be respectful.