I am so glad I found this forum. I am having surgery in three days and I am scared to death. I am 41 years old and have two daughters. I have so many questions and fears that I don't even know where to begin. I believe it is called a neck dissection and possible removal of a little jaw bone, however, not enough that bone will need to be replaced. Soft tissue will be grafted from my forearm and of course lymphnode removal. From what I've read of others this is relatively easy compared to many. I just wanted to say hello, and THANK YOU, I don't feel so alone!