Hi Jane,
I am terribly sorry to hear about your mother. My father died of Lymphoma and I had hospice care for him at home. They took care of pain management, sent a nurse out weekly, education of caregivers, provided appliances to make life a little easier like wheelchairs and commodes and bathing and respite care. After my dad passed they provided grief counseling. I was very grateful to have the support they gave me. I hope this helps...

God bless you,

Gary Stage III, SCC, right tonsil


Gary Allsebrook
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Dx 11/22/02, SCC, 6 x 3 cm Polypoid tumor, rt tonsil, Stage III/IVA, T3N0M0 G1/2
Tx 1/28/03 - 3/19/03, Cisplatin ct x2, IMRT, bilateral, with boost, x35(69.96Gy)
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"You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes" (James 4:14 NIV)