I would like some buttons and literature. I asked on a previous post and everybody ignored me..........lol.............Now, I'm asking again.............How can I help ?

Husband 2/3 tongue removed March 2008. Free flap. . Stage IV. Radiation and 3 chemo's (cisplatin,taxol & erbitux). .Pet scan Aug 08 showed mets to lungs .Oct 08, recurrence. - In the arms of Jesus, July 15, 2009