Oh Suzanne,

I am so very sorry. I came across your post and felt so bad when I read that you have to have surgery "again" and right before your wedding! Timing certainly couldn't be worse for you. You are also very young to have this kind of cancer. This should be one of the most carefree and happy times of your life. Surely a lot of your joy has turned to stress having to go through the surgery and all. I LOVE weddings and would love to hear about yours....details details. Nothing about it would bore me. :-)

My husband is in stage 4C, the last stage of the last stage and he was "just diagnosed October 28, 2008". He never smoked or drank in his lifetime. Oncologist hasn't given him much time and my heart is broken. He says my husband has only months to maybe 24 months, IF he can beat all the odds against him. Certainly doesn't give us much hope. I can't imagine my life without him in it. We've been married 38 years this June 12th. I'll be anxious to see your updates.

All the best to you
Brenda smith